It used to
be the case that every small boy (and a proportion of the girls) had a stamp
collection. I certainly did. I never took it terribly seriously, but
one of my uncles was a missionary in
Pakistan
, another worked in the sugar industry in
Trinidad
,
South Africa
and
Venezuela
, so there were a reasonable number of foreign stamps coming into the Young
household. Later on I grew more interested in British commemorative
issues, and for a long period went to buy every new set that came out. The
strip of stamps representing the Bayeux Tapestry at the time of the 900th
anniversary of the Battle of Hastings was one of my favourites. Later
still, I set up a standing order at the Post Office so that they would send me
the new stuff, bill my credit card, and while their bank balance grew by a
couple of pounds every couple of months, a new pack was added to a binder in one
of my drawers, never to be looked at again. When I married there was a
resurgence of interest, since my father-in-law has a stamp collection that I
wanted to emulate. After all, they say that imitation is the sincerest
form of philately. However, I eventually got the sense that this was not
going to be an ongoing major part of my life, and I saw the year 2000 as an
opportunity to draw things to a close, and determined that the last issue of
that year would be my last purchase.
So now my stamp collection is a static thing. Very nice to look at – my
opinion that some stamps are little works of art is unchanged – but it will
not now go anywhere, or grow. The collection is stagnant. The
product of an enthusiasm that just isn’t there any more. I confess there
have been other, occasional interests that have gone so far and then stopped.
On a more
high-tech basis, consider how the same applies to a lot of information that you
can find on the world-wide-web. To create your own web site used to be
very unusual. When you do it for the first time and then reflect that
anyone in the world can then access your little part of this unimaginably great
resource, it is quite exciting. But so much of the material on the
internet is unchanged, and will not change until it is eventually deleted.
In 2000 we began a “family” website – at the moment it is frozen in time
with some photos, chat and other stuff relating to Christmas 2001! I also
began a web site intended to help with some aspects of my work as a minister.
I looked the other day to remind myself how out of date it was, and discovered
an advert for a training course that took place in March 2002.
But I
mustn’t kick myself too hard. At the same time as those particular
projects have stalled (for the time being), there are others that have
recaptured the imagination, and allowed me, for example, to collaborate with my
son in putting together a web site on which to put cartoons of a character he
invented for our church magazine (it is www.cassockman.com,
if Christine allows me to advertise!), and in the last few weeks I have uploaded
some pictures of a World War One autograph album I discovered, kept by my
Great-Aunt during her service as a nurse. I may return to the latter
subject in another article.
So what’s my
point? It is obviously not a disaster or a particularly earth-shattering
thing if we take up new interests and then neglect them. Unless the new
“interests” are people. The stamp collection and the website are
inanimate. When we begin something that ought to be a two-way commitment,
then simply give up, that’s when it really matters. That’s when it’s
wrong. The old advertising slogan “a dog is for life, not just for
Christmas” ought to apply to our human friendships and relationships, too.
The good that we can do, the benefit we can gain is worth us working at it,
persevering, not giving up when it gets difficult, or when something new comes
over the horizon.
(c)
Copyright Bill Young 2004