Did
you see, in the weeks before Christmas, a short series on TV called “Grumpy
Old Men”? As an idea for a
programme, this was remarkably simple. Each
instalment featured a group of fairly well-known blokes aged from about 50
upwards getting a number of complaints off their chest about things that happen
in the “modern” world. Not
totally seriously, of course, otherwise it wouldn’t have been entertaining.
And to call these guys “old men” would be rather an exaggeration.
However, it was fun for this particular 40-something to watch, now and
then thinking, “Yes, I agree”! So
if the programme-makers were aiming their product at me, mission accomplished.
And they knew what they were doing, in putting this series on.
They wanted it to ring bells. For
I think that the most entertaining and gripping TV shows, films, theatre and
books are those that somehow strike a chord with us viewers or readers as
individuals. Sometimes this is at
the fantasy level of “I wish that was me”, for example when watching James
Bond, or the heroes of “The Lord of the Rings”.
Sometimes it’s more personal – you watch the angst that two young
people in their teens or twenties are going through in working out their
relationship, and your mind goes back a number of years to the time when you
were having similar experiences.
Naturally, the producers have to exaggerate the scale
and the number of things that happen to their characters, or else the
audience’s attention would flag. This
is why the Accident and Emergency department in
Holby General
Hospital
is inundated with a weekly stream of patients who have come
about their injuries in rather more dramatic ways than might be the case in our
own dear
Coventry
and Warwickshire! But
in amongst the interwoven stories we will now and then find someone or some
event that resonates with us.
And it happens in real life, too. When
we see someone in a predicament that we shared once upon a time, we are all the
more likely to sympathise with them. We
react to them, and if it’s appropriate and in our power, we help, we give
advice, whatever. The unifying
commandment of Jesus Christ was that we should “love one another”, and in
part it was surely aimed at this particular human activity.
We should respond as unselfishly as we can to the needs we see in other
people; we should let other people learn from our mistakes, do our best
to allow the cumulative experience of one generation to inform and guide the
next.
Going back to where we started, it strikes me that some may think that ministers
of the church spend all their time being nice to people.
We try, but just to finish off, maybe I could prove my “Grumpy Old
Man” credentials. I wish that
people wouldn’t...
...
begin all their
replies to questions with the word "well".
...
say that others have
done things "off their own back", when the right (cricketing) metaphor
is actually "off their own bat".
...
think that the
sliding things in furniture are "draws"; they are "drawers".
...
add "at
all" to questions that have a yes/no answer: "Is Bill at home at
all?". Answer, presumably,
"His feet and lower legs are, but as for the rest of him..."
...
miss syllables off
an increasing range of common words - probably becomes "probly",
terrorist becomes "terrist", particularly becomes "particly"
Grrrr!
(c)
Copyright Bill Young 2004